{"id":4842,"date":"2021-01-29T12:51:49","date_gmt":"2021-01-29T17:51:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thesterlingstudy.com\/?p=4842"},"modified":"2022-05-19T21:13:08","modified_gmt":"2022-05-20T01:13:08","slug":"madame-marjorie-part-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thesterlingstudy.com\/madame-marjorie-part-2\/","title":{"rendered":"What Madame Marjorie Taught Me (Part 2)"},"content":{"rendered":"
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The Importance of ‘Being a Lady’ AKA Don’t Get Caught.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Before we begin, Madame Marjorie had a beautiful clip from the Steve Harvey show where she sat Lori down to discuss what she needed to do before she left for college. Every woman should listen to this and see what they take out of this moment. Watch here<\/a>!<\/p>\n

Be Discreet<\/strong><\/p>\n

You may have heard the term moving in silence<\/strong>. Yes, that statement. Moving in silence is one of those terms that many people like to state online for its theory. But, I challenge you to do it in real life.<\/p>\n

Every time Lori goes viral online, multiple people ask, “We need a class from Lori. No, we need the REAL book from Marjorie.”<\/em> Let me tell you something, that desire is something that will never come to light.\u00a0Reason?<\/strong> A lady never tells. If she does, she does it selectively. Madame Majorie has always come across as a mysterious woman. She posts her photos, supports her husband, chats about her grandchildren, and highlights her foundation.<\/p>\n

What does this mean for you?<\/u><\/em><\/p>\n

Don’t be what I call a Twitter Diary User. AKA Don’t Overshare.<\/p>\n

Twitter Diary User<\/em><\/p>\n

It’s someone who uses Twitter as their journal or diary. They think they are tweeting into the void. However, people and Twitter can use these tweets to their advantage. It starts from understanding how you move in the world to take your information into the hands of the unwanted.<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Chatter is Everywhere<\/strong><\/h3>\n

People talk, and they always have the will to discuss with others. Oversharing breaks the mystery. It also brings more disruption into your life. People think they can comment on your life. Please do not give them access to your precious space. Keep it locked and keyed. It builds a strong foundation for life while avoiding\u00a0this is you?<\/em><\/strong>\u00a0Moment too.<\/p>\n

In the eyes of men, they do consider you to be a conquest. Just take the entertainment industry and sports industry. These are very male-centered industries that use women as trophies and part of their competition. From Rihanna’s levels to former video vixens, these women use by the men in Hollywood as a strategic position.<\/p>\n

Men talk a lot. I learned this quite early from my male cousins and male-driven hip hop.\u00a0Even men know that they brag alot. From Drake’s song, “Own It” to Big Sean’s line on “All Me” about Naya (may she Rest In Peace), “My new girl is on Glee and s***, Probably making more money than me and s***”<\/em>. Of course, when they are asked directly, they may not admit it. It seemed like an admitting to defeat <\/strong>and a blow to their ego<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

Be Selective<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Now, how does this relate to those who are not in those industries and networks? Still, be selective on who you engage with in person and online. Whether you are dating them or not, this is none of my business. Be selective as you pick your outfits daily. There are red and orange flags everywhere. Please include women in this category as well. Jealousy and envy come in all forms.<\/p>\n

Questions to you: <\/em><\/p>\n